Years ago, man I was mad mad mad 😡 back then. I loved her, it was soo unfair, I worked my ass off to be a good provider etc. etc…..
多年前，哥们儿我当时真是火冒三丈😡。我爱她，那太不公平了，我拼命工作想做个好供养者，等等等等……
Well the kids are grown up they dun finished college are gainfully employed in high paying jobs .
现在孩子们都长大了，大学也毕业了，在高薪行业有一份稳定的工作。
I have moved on moved on to my life partner with her children and grand children.
我已经向前看了，开始了我的生活伴侣，还有她的孩子和孙子孙女。
So for those getting a divorce, my advice, get a lawyer, don’t get mad don’t get even, abide by the divorce decree. When the time to move on arrives and it will , you will be ready.
所以对于那些正在离婚的人，我的建议是：找个律师，别生气也别报复，遵守离婚判决。当时候到来，你准备好向前看时，你就准备好了。