I have always wanted to bring in more money than my gf/wife, but it does not bother me when she made more. On average, I think females make better parents, but every parent is different.
我一直希望能挣得比女朋友/老婆多，但如果她挣得比我多，我也不介意。一般来说，我觉得女性当父母更好，但每个父母都不一样。
Please consider this scenario: Sometimes I don't control my anger, but only when someone makes me mad. Never physical. She plays "cat and mouse" when we have problems to discuss. She has not worked in eight years. She asks: what about the recent year+ trying a new profession? It wasn't even half of my salary.
请考虑这种情况：我有时控制不住脾气，但只在被惹怒时才会这样。从不暴力。我们有问题要谈时，她喜欢玩“猫捉老鼠”那一套。她已经八年没工作了。她问我：那去年多尝试新职业的事呢？那工资还不到我原来的一半。
She is so lazy, she needs to hear it. She refuses to take responsibility, and always blames me. I hate when she walks away. A real woman would not walk away from her man when he needs to speak to her.
她太懒了，得听听这些大实话。她拒绝承担责任，总是怪我。她一走了之我最讨厌。真女人不会在男人需要沟通时甩手走人。
She always wants to cuddle and more. I cannot be close to her when she is like that. I am fine on my own, and don't need a woman.
她总是想抱抱什么的。她那样时我无法靠近她。我一个人挺好的，不需要女人。
She claimed to be trying to get back to work, but was using me. She said that when unemployment ran out, she would take any job. Even Illegals can land jobs, but she can't because she does not want to work. When she refused to apply for easy jobs, and insisted on her prior field, I said she needed to leave, or would force us to. I have had enough of her BS. She can live with family. I was smart enough to have her quit-claim the deeds to me a few months earlier, when she asked for a separation.
她说想重新找工作，其实只是在利用我。她说失业救济拿完后会接受任何工作。连非法移民都能找到工作，她却找不到，因为她根本不想工作。当她拒绝申请那些简单的工作，非要坚持找以前那一行时，我说她要么滚蛋，要么我就把她赶出去。我受够了她的鬼话。让她去跟家人住吧。我早就够机灵了，几个月前她要求分居时，我就让她把房产契据无条件转让给我了。
She refused to leave, even after our children asked her to. She has used cannabis and even ketamine, and blamed me for her depression, claiming I have NPD. She forced the children and I to move out, because we can't live in the same house anymore. I filed a DVRO so she would have no contact. The judge said the allegations look like typical divorces, and ordered no assaults. She is violent, and even damaged our home once. She tried fixing it, but I can still see it.
她拒绝搬走，即使我们的孩子也让她走。她滥用大麻甚至氯胺酮（K粉），还把抑郁的责任推给我，说我有人格障碍（NPD）。她逼着孩子和我搬出去，因为我们不能再住同一个屋檐下了。我申请了家庭暴力限制令（DVRO）禁止她接触我们。法官说这些指控看起来像普通的离婚纠纷，只下令禁止攻击行为。她很暴力，还曾经损坏过我们的房子。她试图修好，但我还能看到痕迹。
I encourage her to connect with our children, but she is asking for half! She promised me much more so I could take care of them, and they refuse any contact with her. She has made offers for us to move back until the divorce is final, but I refuse. She can't even pay the mortgage, but is still living there rent-free.
我鼓励她与孩子们联系，她却在讨要一半财产！她曾承诺给我更多钱让我照顾孩子，但孩子们现在拒绝与她有任何接触。她还提议在离婚完成前我们搬回去住，我拒绝了。她连按揭都付不起，却还免费住在那里。
She can work, she is just lazy. The children are behind me 100%! I need the money to pay for their college.
她能工作，就是懒。孩子们100%站在我这边！我需要钱供他们上大学。
Can you believe her? Calling me a narcissist?
你能信她的鬼话吗？说我是什么自恋狂？