Seem to hear it all the time, maybe b/c I have recently read several books on it. I have another on hold at the library, Abstract at bottom. She checks All the boxes.

听起来总是这样，也许因为我最近读了几本关于它的书。我在图书馆还预约了一本，简介在底部。她符合所有条件。

Her dad before birth, and her mom had it tough. She told me many times before and after we married that before me, she never wanted to get married b/c no man could be good enough. Hindsight is 20/20, but until recently, I knew nothing about narcs. Years ago in therapy, when the therapist clearly stated her actions were abuse, she said she needed a strong man and could not be with me if I agreed! I said that the label didn't matter and we just need to keep her from getting that mad. The codependent was trying too hard 🙁

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