Someone to talk to

Hey there,

嘿，

Anyone available to talk about divorce?

有人想聊聊离婚吗？

Going thru a tough one. Just want to talk. Maybe you went or are going thru the same.

我正经历一段艰难的时期。只想找人聊聊。也许你也经历过，或者正在经历类似的事。

Male, Hispanic, 48.

男性，拉美裔，48岁。

Is that it did not need to be hard. But she had grown more and more paranoid over the years and had developed a habit of demonizing me. You would think it finally being over would make her happy but nope, that launched her into overdrive. In her mind she made me into a really bad person but that's what she needed, a bad person, real or imaginary, to fight against.

本来这场离婚没必要闹得这么僵。但她这些年变得越来越偏执，养成了一种妖魔化我的习惯。你以为事情终于结束了她会开心，结果恰恰相反，这让她更加疯狂。在她心里，把我塑造成一个极度糟糕的人，但那是她需要的，一个能让她与之对抗的坏人，不管真的假的。

I was around the same age as you now. Your main focus should be to walk away as emotionally intact as you can muster. Don't fuck up work, and everything else will slowly fall into place.

我现在的年纪和你差不多。你现在的主要任务是尽可能保持情绪稳定地抽身离开。别搞砸工作，其他事情自然会慢慢好起来。

And for fucks sake don't be desperate to jump into another relationship. Some people are like drug addicts that can't put down the relationship fix. Seriously consider having a vasectomy.

还有他妈的，别急着跳进下一段关系。有些人就像吸毒成瘾一样，离不开关系带来的快感。认真考虑去结扎吧。

You can talk to me, Craig

你可以和我聊聊，克雷格

971-708-6192 10-8 M-Th Not a Lawyer or any sales

971-708-6192 早上10点到晚上8点 周一至周四 不是律师 也不推销